
Fearless & Female: Improve Executive Presence - Lead with Impact
Sarah Farmer
Sarah Farmer is a Global Executive Coach, author, and founder of Bright & Brilliant Ltd., a leadership development firm specialising in supporting C-suite executives, leadership teams, emerging senior leaders, and business owners.
With a degree in Applied Chemistry and a lifelong interest in psychology and human behaviour—sparked early on by exposure to her mother’s work as a psychologist—Sarah combines analytical rigour with deep insight into what drives people. Her coaching is grounded in a practical understanding of how the brain works, helping leaders manage themselves more effectively and create lasting behavioural change in others.
- Recording: Yes
- Language: English
- Duration: 45 min / 15 min
Session Summary
Highly capable women often hesitate at key moments at work, not due to a lack of ability or confidence, but because they are navigating multiple expectations, responsibilities, and pressures simultaneously. This constant mental load can lead to overthinking, second-guessing, and delayed decision-making, particularly in high-stakes or high-visibility situations. This International Women’s Day session explores why overthinking is so prevalent for women in the workplace, how it affects confidence, executive presence, and leadership impact, and what practical strategies women can use to think more clearly and act decisively under pressure. Participants will gain insight into how to reduce mental overload, strengthen self-trust, and lead with greater clarity and effectiveness in complex environments.
Interaction
During the expert session, Sarah Farmer engages the audience through visuals, interactive Q&A, and live polling.
Key Learnings
- The Core of Executive Presence (EP): EP is defined by how others experience your capability, not just your internal knowledge. It acts as the essential bridge between being competent and being perceived as a leader. True presence requires the consistent expression of confidence, emotional intelligence, and clear communication, especially under pressure.
- The Biology of Pressure: When the "heat is on," the brain triggers a threat response that causes leaders to leak tension. This results in three counterproductive patterns: compensating (over-explaining), concealing (holding back), or misinterpreting (seeing neutral cues as negative). Recognizing these biological triggers is the first step to interrupting them.
- Practical Self-Regulation Tools: Impact starts with internal stability. Leaders can reset in seconds by lengthening their exhale to calm the nervous system, dropping their shoulders to release physical rigidity, and using grounding phrases like "I am steady." Using a "Power Pose" before high-stakes moments further signals strength to the brain.
Detailed session description
In this session, Sarah Farmer delivers a masterclass on maintaining authority and "leading brightly" when the stakes are highest. She begins by redefining Executive Presence (EP) as the vital link between being high-performing and being seen as ready for senior leadership. Sarah argues that while many women possess immense capability, they often struggle with how that ability is perceived under intense pressure. She breaks EP down into three foundational pillars: Confidence (avoiding both the "imposter" dip and over-confidence), Emotional Intelligence (the ability to choose a response rather than simply reacting), and Communication Effectiveness (the versatility to adapt your style to the needs of your audience).
The session dives deep into the neuroscience of stress, explaining how the brain’s "threat response" can sabotage even the most seasoned leaders. Sarah illustrates how high-pressure environments, such as presenting to senior boards or navigating difficult feedback, cause our biology to leak signals of discomfort. Using a color-coded archetype system (Red, Blue, Green, and Yellow), she demonstrates how our natural communication strengths can become "too loud" and jarring when we are deregulated. To counter this, she provides a "re-calibration" toolkit of immediate physical and mental exercises. From the "Power Pose" to specific breathing techniques and grounding self-talk, the session empowers women to stay intentionally calm and focused. Ultimately, Sarah teaches that being "fearless" is not about the absence of nerves, but about the self-regulation required to ensure your capability shines through even when the heat is on.
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