The Value of Conflict in Organizations

• Interactive Discussion: Participants reflect on real-world conflicts in their own teams.
• Case Studies: Examples from both corporate settings and Nina’s experiences in mediation, leadership development, and defense organizations.
• Live Exercises: Applying models like Deep Democracy’s sabotage line and Conflict Layer Mapping in group settings.

Who Would Benefit from This Session?

• Leaders & Managers: To develop skills in facilitating rather than suppressing difficult conversations.
• HR & Organizational Development Teams: To create structures that support constructive conflict resolution.
• Teams in High-Stakes, Fast-Paced Environments: To foster collaboration, innovation, and resilience.
• Diverse & Cross-Functional Teams: To prevent disengagement and ensure all voices contribute effectively.

1. Understanding Conflict: A New Perspective

• Conflict is often perceived as dangerous and something to be avoided. Nina challenges this by reframing conflict as an opportunity for growth and learning.
• She uses the fire metaphor to illustrate how conflict can be destructive if mishandled but, when approached constructively, can foster renewal and progress (e.g., controlled burns in agriculture).
• The session introduces insights from Arnold Mindell’s "Sitting in the Fire", emphasizing that real peace and sustainable resolution come from engaging with conflict rather than suppressing it.

2. The Psychological and Organizational Dynamics of Conflict

• Nina draws from Deep Democracy, a methodology that highlights how diverse perspectives in organizations are often ignored, leading to sabotage lines—passive resistance, sarcasm, gossip, or disengagement.
• She explains why many organizations struggle with conflict due to poor leadership in managing diverse viewpoints. Simply increasing diversity is not enough—leaders must create structures to integrate these perspectives effectively.

3. Conflict as a Driver of Innovation and Team Growth

• Most organizations value innovation, but true innovation requires discomfort and challenging conversations. Conflict is often the birthplace of new ideas, yet many leaders fear the tension it brings.
• The session explores the paradox: while organizations want growth and adaptability, they avoid the very conditions that create them (i.e., diverse and sometimes conflicting perspectives).
• A practical takeaway is learning to distinguish between destructive and constructive conflict, so teams can foster a culture that leverages rather than suppresses disagreement.

4. Practical Tools and Models for Conflict Management

Nina provides concrete frameworks for handling conflict in teams:

• The Three Layers of Conflict Model (Position – Interests – Needs)
• Encourages participants to look beyond surface-level disagreements to understand deeper motivations.
• Helps shift discussions from who is right vs. wrong to what are the underlying needs and shared goals?
• The Importance of Slowing Down
  • Organizations often prioritize efficiency over meaningful dialogue, leading to unresolved tensions that manifest later in negative ways.
  • Nina highlights how short-term slowing down can lead to long-term efficiency and better decision-making.
• Self-Analysis: Understanding Your Own Conflict Triggers
  • Participants reflect on their own conflict patterns. What consistently triggers their emotional response?
  • Recognizing personal triggers allows individuals and teams to develop strategic approaches to managing and utilizing conflict constructively.

5. Creating a Conflict-Ready Organization

• The session concludes with a step-by-step approach for teams and leaders to embed conflict readiness into their culture:
  • Establish clear team agreements on how conflict is handled before it arises.
  • Normalize constructive conflict as a leadership competency.
  • Equip employees with tools and psychological safety to engage in open and honest discussions.

Unconscious Bias

Your brain links images to existing information in your brain. It does this to create order in the world around you. However, this categorization is often rather simplistic. There is no checking - does that actually apply to this image? - or nuance. During a session unconscious bias by Nina Blussé, you will learn why every person stereotypes to survive and how you can somewhat contain the effects of these prejudices.